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Jan 26, 2026 - 8 MIN READ
My First Steps into Graph Databases: Learning Neo4j Fundamentals

My First Steps into Graph Databases: Learning Neo4j Fundamentals

Discovering a new way to think about data relationships: My journey learning Neo4j graph databases, from understanding graph theory to writing my first Cypher queries and earning my first graph database certification.

Peter Mangoro

Peter Mangoro

When I first heard about graph databases, I'll admit I was skeptical. After years of working with relational databases—tables, joins, foreign keys—the idea of storing data as nodes and relationships felt... unconventional. But as someone who's always curious about new ways to solve problems, I decided to dive into Neo4j's Fundamentals course.

What I discovered was a completely different way of thinking about data—one that's more intuitive, more powerful, and honestly, more fun.

Certificate: Neo4j Fundamentals Certification

Why Graph Databases?

Before diving into Neo4j, I had to understand: what makes graph databases different?

Traditional relational databases are great for structured data with clear relationships. But what happens when you need to understand complex, interconnected relationships? What if you need to explore connections of varying depth? What if the relationships themselves are as important as the data?

That's where graph databases shine.

The "Aha!" Moment

The course started with something I thought I knew: graph theory. But seeing it applied to databases was eye-opening. Graphs are mathematical structures consisting of edges and vertices—in Neo4j's world, these become relationships and nodes.

What clicked for me was understanding that Neo4j stores relationships as first-class citizens. In a relational database, relationships are implicit—you discover them through JOINs at query time. In Neo4j, relationships are stored directly, making traversal incredibly fast.

The key insight: Queries in graph databases are proportional to the amount of data touched during a query, not the size of data overall.

What I Learned: The Fundamentals

Graph Elements

The course introduced me to Neo4j's core building blocks:

Nodes: Represent individual records—things or facts. A person, a product, an event, a book.

Labels: Group nodes together and serve as starting points for queries. A node can have multiple labels (like :Person:Customer).

Relationships: Connect two nodes with exactly one start and end node. Each relationship has a single type.

Properties: Key-value pairs that can exist on both nodes and relationships.

When Graphs Make Sense

The course highlighted specific scenarios where graph databases excel:

  • Understanding relationships between entities: Perfect for social networks, recommendation systems, or organizational charts
  • Hierarchical problems: Family trees, organizational structures, file systems
  • Exploring relationships of varying depth: "Find all friends of friends" queries
  • Route and path evaluation: Navigation, logistics, network analysis

Common Use Cases

Learning about real-world applications helped me see the practical value:

  • E-commerce platforms combine ratings, purchase history, and browsing history for real-time recommendations
  • Investigative journalism (like ICIJ) uses Neo4j to explore networks of global companies and identify persons of interest
  • Enterprise systems use graphs for planning, cost analysis, impact analysis, and troubleshooting

The Neo4j Advantage

What makes Neo4j special? It's a native graph database designed specifically for graph traversal.

In relational databases, JOINs are computed at read-time. In Neo4j, relationships are stored in a way that allows for quick pointer-chasing in memory. This means:

  • Faster queries: Traversing relationships is incredibly fast
  • Scalable: Performance scales with the data you touch, not total data size
  • Intuitive: The data model matches how we naturally think about relationships

Modeling Rules

One of the most valuable lessons was learning how to model data in a graph:

Nodes typically represent things: Person, Product, Event, Book, Subway Station

Relationships are typically verbs:

  • Personal connections: (:Person)-[:KNOWS]->(:Person)
  • Facts: (:Person)-[:LIVES_IN]->(:Location)
  • Hierarchies: (:Parent)-[:PARENT_OF]->(:Child)

Verbs can also be nodes: When you need to associate multiple facts with an action. For example, grouping multiple product purchases through a single (:Order) node.

This modeling approach felt more natural than designing tables and foreign keys.

Writing My First Cypher Queries

Learning Cypher—Neo4j's query language—was surprisingly intuitive. The syntax reads almost like natural language:

// Find all people who know someone who lives in New York
MATCH (p:Person)-[:KNOWS]->(friend:Person)-[:LIVES_IN]->(city:City {name: "New York"})
RETURN p.name, friend.name

Coming from SQL, Cypher felt more declarative and easier to understand. Instead of thinking about JOINs and WHERE clauses, I could describe the pattern I wanted to find.

Key Takeaways

1. Relationships Matter

In graph databases, relationships aren't just connections—they're data. You can store properties on relationships, query them directly, and traverse them efficiently.

2. Performance Scales Differently

Graph databases excel at relationship-heavy queries. A query that might require multiple JOINs in SQL can be a simple pattern match in Cypher.

3. Modeling is More Intuitive

Modeling data as nodes and relationships often matches how we naturally think about problems. This makes the database schema easier to understand and maintain.

4. Use Cases Are Specific

Graph databases aren't replacing relational databases—they're solving different problems. When relationships are central to your use case, graphs are powerful.

What's Next?

The Neo4j Fundamentals course was just the beginning. I'm particularly excited about exploring:

  • Graph Data Science: Using graph algorithms for insights
  • Real-world applications: Building recommendation systems or network analysis tools
  • Integration: Combining Neo4j with my existing data analytics workflows

Resources for Learning More

Neo4j has an incredible ecosystem of learning resources:

Reflection

Learning Neo4j has changed how I think about data. Coming from a background in relational databases and data analytics, I initially saw graphs as just another tool. But they're more than that—they're a different paradigm for understanding relationships.

The course was well-structured, practical, and gave me a solid foundation. Earning the certification felt like validation that I understood the fundamentals, but more importantly, it opened my eyes to a new way of solving problems.

I'm excited to continue exploring graph databases and see how they can enhance my data analytics projects. Whether it's recommendation systems, network analysis, or understanding complex relationships in healthcare data, I now have a new tool in my toolkit.


Certificate: View my Neo4j Fundamentals Certification

Course: Neo4j Fundamentals on GraphAcademy


This blog post reflects my personal learning journey with Neo4j. If you're curious about graph databases or have questions about getting started, feel free to reach out!

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